Now that you have established that this family member has a problem, what are you supposed to do? You probably don’t know where to start or perhaps you don’t want to ruffle any feathers. However, it’s important to know that denying that there is a problem is harmful to everyone, especially the alcoholic. Denial is common when it comes to the disease of addiction. It’s what keeps it going and is a challenge during treatment and recovery. If this powerful entity is strong within the alcoholic, imagine how powerful it is when an entire family is in denial. The alcoholic is living consequence-free in a distorted reality, with the help of the entire family. No one wins in that situation.
Changing an entire family is difficult, especially if denial has been a part of the family for a long time. It would be great if things were easy: The alcoholic person willingly goes to alcohol rehab, enters recovery and everyone lives happily ever after. That’s not reality. Although you can’t force anyone to get treatment for alcoholism, there are things you can do to cope with addiction in the family.
The addicted family member should realize he or she doesn’t have a hall pass for drinking when you treat the family and learn to cope with addiction. It might seem cruel, but not supporting the addictive behavior is the healthiest thing to do.
Healing occurs when your family sticks together and continues their treatment, even if nothing seems to change right away. You can all take an honest look at the destructive habit, the effect it has on the family and recognize the need to get treatment at an alcohol rehab center. The alcoholic’s life become unmanageable without help from you and your family. Lakeview Health helps alcoholics and their families start the healing process. The alcoholic and the family get the help they need to start the road to recovery.
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